Thriving relationships operate with core truths leading the way, emphasizing mutual regard and common decency. Narcissists are writers of their own scripts and show low interest in coordinating their approach toward life with you in a mutually rewarding way. Dr. LesCarter highlights 5 of the most important truths they miss along the way. Even though narcissists have a mistaken style of relating, you do not have to accept their invitation to live inside the tension they create.
Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. In the past 40 years he has conducted more than 60,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars. He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder.Thriving relationships operate with core truths leading the way, emphasizing mutual regard and common decency. Narcissists are writers of their own scripts and show low interest in coordinating their approach toward life with you in a mutually rewarding way. Dr. LesCarter highlights 5 of the most important truths they miss along the way. Even though narcissists have a mistaken style of relating, you do not have to accept their invitation to live inside the tension they create. Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. In the past 40 years he has conducted more than 60,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars. He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder.
“Fake Alpha” Narcissists vs True Alphas
Authority vs Competence
Force an Agenda vs Gives Time to Buy into an Agenda
Unearned Loyalty vs Earned Byproduct of Relationship
Thin-skinned vs Understanding Difference. Thick Skinned
Cult based on their Personal Preference vs Solid Ideas
Insistence vs Patient Planning & Process, dealing with problems that come up
Demand Obedience vs Creativity & Diversity
Desperate for Agreement vs Confident
Bullying, Threats, Name Calling, Derision vs Assertiveness with decency. Allows others Dignity
Has to be on top, Concerned with Rank vs Common Good
Self-impressed vs Humble
Exploitative vs Lifting Others Up
Appearance of Success vs Essence, Lets my Inner Being Speak
Angry Under Pressure vs Calm under Pressure
Short-term Brute Force
Life isn’t all about me. Life is about Us
DRC: dignity, respect, civility