How To Outsmart A Narcissist The Right Way

We all would have loved to be able to outsmart a narcissist in the times when they are hurting us and when we are under siege from their malicious behaviour. But why doesn’t this seem to work? Why is it that many people don’t beat narcissists and in fact end up getting more abused when they try to?

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realized that this is a profound soul

contract and if we haven’t made the

unconscious conscious we will be showing

up in an unhealed in a childhood

container which means that we’re going

to be holding the narcissist responsible

for our wounds and we’re going to be

handing over a lot of fear and pain and

insecurity and neediness which hooks it

into the narcissist and into the whole

dynamic and we’re going to play out that

not winning getting our wounds smashed

more and more and more and more open to

get our attention to finally understand

that the narcissist is not the healer of

our wounds the narcissist is the

messenger of them because this is the

uncanny irony is that narcissus have the

most expert ability to find every

insecurity you’ve got every weak link

and target it with full intensity now is

that ironic

or is that actually really meant to be I

totally believe it’s really meant to be

because that’s what’s making our

unconscious wounds that were our normal

we were just bumping along in life with

them it brings them up in such a way

there’s no ignoring them so if we

understand that this is a soul contract

if we understand that the narcissus is

in our life exposing for us our

unconscious wounds to make them

conscious then what we’ll do is we’ll

stop holding the narcissus responsible

for them we’ll stop feeding the

narcissist with narcissistic supply

which is initially very very hard to do

because when our original deepest most

painful wounds are targeted and smashed

and they’re energized it’s very hard

to hook in and handover narcissistic

supply and fight back and be terrified

and incensed and devastated and all

those things but when we realize that

this is what’s playing out then even

though we are all of those things we

stop hooking into the narcissist and we

confront all of those things in our

bodies instead we saw partner we make it

all about that we heal we find those we

released some way up level them and then

when we do that we are freed from the

whole debacle and it’s such an irony is

that when we’re not realizing that we’re

in a soul contract with an aid and angel

in disguise and we’re holding them

responsible for our wounds we want to

outsmart them we’re going to try to

outsmart them but we never will we want

to get beaten up with our wounds more it

never works yet there are any years is

when we detach and we say you’re

actually the messenger just the catalyst

you’re the aid this is all about finally

being able to self partner and come home

in my own body and clean up my original

traumas from my childhood from my

ancestors from my beliefs from from the

screwy beliefs of humanity you know and

when I cannot level that it’s actually

not even about you and my ego is not

even invested at all because it’s not

about you there’s no ego in this is only

consciousness is only awakening and when

we fully stream into that consciousness

and awakening we defeat the narcissist

because there is no longer any fear or

pain or ego battle when we’re in their

arena in their vibration for a battle to

even take place we’ve up leveled to

another frequency here and another

emotional frequency another dimension

literally which doesn’t include egos

so they unravel and this is what happens

is the narcissist in your experience

will unravel come undone be defeated

simply because you’re up leveling and

transcending to another reality where

they can’t use any fear or pain against

you because we have to understand to

defeat a narcissist what is a narcissist

a narcissist is a false self and what is

a false self a false self is a

constructed image that’s not real that

needs energy outside of itself to exist

to operate it needs your fear pain and

attention and when you become self

partner to make it all about Europe

leveling you snap all of that off all of

that goes your healing any of the

original wounds that means that you were

hooked into a narcissist you leave it

all behind so the irony is when we

understand the soul contract we have no

need to outsmart and Isis as the only

need we had is to evolve ourselves and

then naturally organically we outsmart

the narcissist because we cut off all

connection so really hope that’s helped

and given you so much food for thought

about this and the truth of what plays

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