Why are INTJs so misunderstood?
My fiancee is an INTJ and i am INFJ. So i will speak for my self as a person engages to an INTJ. INTJs are frequently misunderstood because they lack the ability to express their emotion openly. Not all people have encountered MBTI, so they don’t know that INTJs’ lack of emotional expression doesn’t mean they don’t have emotions. We, human beings in general are visual-driven creatures, thus, “what we see is what we get”. However, there are people who have the ability to see-through right into the INTJs core — INFJs (again, I’m speaking for myself). Unfortunately, INFJs are rare, rarer than INTJs. So the probability of finding the people that understands INTJs is so slim. INTJs will always be misunderstood because majority of the people doesn’t have the capability to debunk them. But once somebody get through their layers of shells — it’s like winning a lottery! Because they are like a treasure deeply hidden under the ground. For those people who misunderstood INTJs – let them be! Continue to be who YOU are. 💋