My fiancee is an INTJ and i am INFJ. So i will speak for my self as a person engages to an INTJ. INTJs are frequently misunderstood because they lack the ability to express their emotion openly. Not all people have encountered MBTI, so they don’t know that INTJs’ lack of emotional expression doesn’t mean they don’t have emotions. We, human beings in general are visual-driven creatures, thus, “what we see is what we get”. However, there are people who have the ability to see-through right into the INTJs core — INFJs (again, I’m speaking for myself). Unfortunately, INFJs are rare, rarer than INTJs. So the probability of finding the people that understands INTJs is so slim. INTJs will always be misunderstood because majority of the people doesn’t have the capability to debunk them. But once somebody get through their layers of shells — it’s like winning a lottery! Because they are like a treasure deeply hidden under the ground. For those people who misunderstood INTJs – let them be! Continue to be who YOU are. 💋
Is it true that only INFJs get INTJs completely? Can they really enter within them or are they claiming they have the ability to?
No. We do not get them completely. They just tend to be loyal so we trust on them and their abilities.
We are aware of the something being hidden that we do not see but we do not have to as long trust is there.
I’m an infj, how do I win over a intj?
INFJs naturally win over INTJs without really trying usually. They both sense depth and uncommon intelligence in each other and yet, when having discussions or sharing ideas, they have differing ways of arriving at usually the same opinion. When opinions differ, they each present sound logic for their conclusions. This is enormously refreshing to the INTJ.
Maybe the better question is, what would an INTJ not like about an INFJ? Based on being an INTJ female with a boyfriend, sister and very good friend all being INFJs, I can tell you the only thing that has ever bugged me is when they get into thought loops that take forever to break out of. It’s usually around a decision that will alter their general routine, like changing jobs or an important aspect of their current job. I look at things as “do what’s in your long term best interest” but an INFJ takes into account the impact to other people just as much if not more than their own interest. But I have also learned to respect their taking their time on such things because they usually make an even better decision than I would have. I just lack the patience for all the ruminating again and again over the same details.
I do appreciate the INFJs perspective on most things so I think the best advice is to be yourself! There’s probably nothing not to like about you and if you have to work at winning someone (of any type) over, then it’s probably not worth it or the lack of connection has everything to do with them and very little to do with you.
6 INFJ Perfect Companions – The Rarest Personality Type
6 INFJ Perfect Companions | Ahh.. INFJ romance..Being the rarest personality type and often the most misunderstood of the 16 personality types, the seemingly lonely INFJ has better chances at catching a date than most people would think. In fact, the highly personable INFJ traits make them the perfect INFJ companion for many types, but what personality types are considered truly INFJ compatible?
Well, when it comes to INFJ relationships, thanks to the romantic INFJ communication skills, they’re able to easily connect with both introverted and extroverts. So, INFJ compatibility has more to do with heart and kindness than it does character, making the possibility of an INFJ couple possible with many different types when it comes to INFJ dating. The perfect INFJ partner must respect the INFJ open mind and try to understand their deep emotional needs and wants.. a strength these 6 INFJ perfect companions show very well. So, which INFJ compatible types make the best INFJ girlfriend or INFJ boyfriend?