What keeps INTJs interested in a relationship? What makes them lose interest?
INTJ are solo creatures. We’re not driven to partner. We don’t need to, we’re already complete.
Because we don’t have to have a relationship, we’re able to negotiate from the power position. Our freedom from need allows us to pursue our wish list.
INTJs are both perceivers (Ni) and goal oriented (J). INTJs are attracted to people who are both open to possibilities and able to focus in order to get sh*t done.
Plainly, both an open mind and task driven behavior is key to the INTJ heart.
Turn offs are: complacency, mental dogmas, logical fallacies, putting the INTJ into a box, boxes of any sort really, assumptions, endless perditions, negative compliance, dependency, chemical dependencies, lack of emotional discernment, lack of purpose etc.
In a nutshell:
Creator mindset = good
Consumer mindset = bad