Do INTJs fall in love quickly?
Fall in love? Depending on your definition. We are just like other humans when we see a person we all of a sudden… notices they pop out of the crowd; however, apparently, not like other humans, reason kicks in. Which leads to if you are referring to “fall in love” as in a MUCH more deeper sense and true sense of the word- no we don’t fall in love. We fall in love literally one step at a time- one check mark at a time. Do you meet our criteria for an ideal spouse? What does our hypothetical future together look like? Usually we think through that last one at first meeting- with ANYONE (not just for spouse “approval” but also if “friend approval”- meaning if we would work well as friends, etc). On top of that, INTJ’s have their own subjective lists and preferences that a potential spouse must fit. Why? It’s forever… or so we are seeking. As this next picture will end with- we don’t fall into love easily, but we fall into love hard. Found some pics to help explain:
And some funny pics to go along with this: