What’s the hardest partner for an INTJ?

There are a lot of people that would make awful partners for INTJs. These, I think, would make the worst ones:

-A needy partner that requires lots of validation, attention and proof of love.

-A controlling partner that needs to know what you are doing, reading, working on and that looks over your shoulder to see what you are reading, watching or writing

-A close minded partner, one that refuses to see others’ point of view or educate him/herself before expressing an opinion or that refuses to see proof that he/she is wrong

-A dumb one