Why is it hard to understand and love an INFJ?
The reason why it is hard to love and understand an INFJ is because they pick up emotions very easily. If you show a subtle expression of not show interest in how the INFJ feels, then most likely they will close off. Your approach to an INFJ has to be caring and loving and warm. Don’t judge either, they may say things that you probably won’t understand. As long as you are investing the sincere effort to understand your INFJ, it could be all they need. Most INFJ understand that majority of people will not understand them, but if you put in the effort to understand. It shows the INFJ that you are trying and loving them the best that you can. And most times that’s just enough for an INFJ.
When the INFJ tells you what they need in the relationship, DO NOT ignore it. If they ask to be cuddled more, then do it. If they ask for help, do it. If they ask for you to show more affection, do it. Most times, INFJ’s are fair with responsibilities. So, it’s not like they are going to abuse you and turn you into a slave. INFJ’s don’t really ask for much, they only ask to be genuinely loved, valued and cherished for all that they are.