8 Questions A Narcissist Simply Cannot Answer

  1. What are some of your  deepest hurts?
  2. Why is it so difficult for you to admit flaws or mistakes?
  3. Why do you feel the need to impress strangers?  Fishing for admiration.
  4. Why do my differences threaten you so much?  No empathy.
  5. Do you honestly believe that your opinions cancel out the validity of others?
  6. In what ways do you need to grow and change?  Suggest not a complete person. Source of shame
  7. If I make you feel so frustrated, why do you keep coming back?  (it makes them feel superior)
  8. Why do you go silent? (passive-aggressive anger without vulnerability)

In order to grow and mature psychologically, you have to be willing to look inwardly with honesty. Dr. Les Carter describes how narcissists are not inclined toward inward examination, nor are they honest with themselves. He exposes 8 specific questions that they simply cannot come to terms with, but as you can ponder these questions, it will help you to know more clearly who you are as well as who the narcissist is.