Narcissists exist in systems, supported by enablers.
The narcissist had a tough backstory (which excuses their behavior)
They didn’t mean it. (How did the narcissist enablers know this) gaslighting
I didn’t have any problem with them. (Dismissive Invalidation)
(They had a different relationship with them. They are narcissistic themselves or good supply)
It will get better. Just be patient. (This is cruel because narcissists rarely change and the narcissist faces no consequences.)
It’s not that bad. (minimization, invalidation, gaslighting)
Stop complaining. They work really hard.
(They’re a good provider)
What is “baiting”? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships)
- One of the last things I told my Narc before we separated was, “the reason you are so cruel and mean to me is because when you look at me I am EVERYTHING you are not.”
Narcissistic pseudo spirituality
Why Millennials Are Quitting Their Jobs | Great Resignation + r/antiwork
0:00 – Why are so many Americans quitting their jobs?
2:04 – The Internet is the great equalizer
4:28– People are realizing there are better options
7:16 – How COVID has contributed?
10:25 – People are realizing what they NEED to survive
15:21 – This is happening on every rung of the corporate ladder
17:44 – Some employers recognize what employees want
19:36 – Invalidating working experience
23:12 – Only addressing the perception of the problem
24:56 – Corporations being held accountable
26:34 – Selection Pressure
29:24 – “They haven’t earned it”
32:31 – Evolutionary systems