INFJ Assumes the Role of Common Enemy to Unite the Group

isms and stuff you can’t really you can
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use those to an extent but you know
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everybody’s a little different me
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personally I think I’m a more goofy
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sarcastic infj I can be serious I think
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it’s I think it’s a lot about like I
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said everything evolves around your
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environment and who you’re around okay
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and your circle of friends or
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acquaintances in this case for infj is
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could you I don’t have a whole lot of
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friends which is not a bad thing by the
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way I don’t ever assume it’s a bad thing
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uh I have a group that I am more the
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serious straight man in and the more
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concrete rationalized analytical mind in
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that group but I also have groups that I
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am the clown I’m the jokester I
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basically I know J’s in my personal
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opinion assumed the role that is most
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necessary for whatever group or
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organization they become a part of so if
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the organization is missing that
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level-headed the structured thinker I
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will do my best to become that isn’t
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necessarily my strong point probably not
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but I will try to do it anyway if I feel
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like I need to be the bad guy in the
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group I will become that bad guy so one
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thing to keep in mind is that I know
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Jays are very capable of becoming
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extremely despotic and tyrants all the
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biggest tyrants and then despots and and
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all those kind of people in the world
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like Hitler and all that where INF
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J’s at the same time some of the
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greatest philosophical minds people who
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pushed society into a more positive
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direction and things like that like
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Gandhi and stuff Brian of JS as well so
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we’re bit were capable of either role so
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it’s all about it’s all about how you’re
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shaped by your environment and the
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people you interact with and meet you
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can very much Teeter on either edge
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there’s also RJ’s are very complicated
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to write because I’m very capable evil
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I’ve done evil in the past what I would
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consider evil to people but I do those
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things because I see them necessary I
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very much see
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like when I was talking about conflict I
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very much feel sometimes conflict is
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necessary sometimes lies are necessary
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and I will do those things if I feel
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like I can benefit the people involved
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I’ve had groups in the past where I’m
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taking the role of the bad guy the the
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guy who who will say things that
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triggers people gets them upset it’s
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very much it’s almost it’s almost
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considered like a martyr complex but at
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the same time it’s almost more of just
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this being annoying I actually find
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actually weird feeling to be extremely
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obnoxious to be honest makes me do
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things I don’t really want to do I
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always it always leads me to this
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demonizing my life and doing things and
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making decisions based on this because I
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want to make other people happy I don’t
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do enough of this to feel it what makes
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me happy and what I value and what’s
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important to me because this is weak I
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don’t know how to do these things
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properly when I do figure them out so I
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ended up just naturally catering to
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other people there’s times I’ve
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sacrificed myself for groups taking the
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blame for things that I don’t need to
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take the blame for for the most part
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I’ll just let that happen to me
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I’ve gotten better at not letting it
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happen but it’s always gonna naturally
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have and I’ve always kind of fallen into
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this I think it’s just because you get
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so comfortable playing that role it
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eventually just becomes into natural and
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an everyday part of your life
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I have groups that I’ve played that role
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in and you know every once in a while
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there’s always like that one or two
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people you know hilariously one of my
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friends that I talked to a lot it’s hard
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to say if we’re even friends or not but
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I for whatever reason I’m always like
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extremely comfortable we were just
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sharing some really private things with
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her and like bouncing a lot of ideas and
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things offer her she was in a group that
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we were in together where I was
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basically like everybody knew who I was
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this wasn’t a this wasn’t an MMO we
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played everybody in the server knew who
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I was and I was basically the number-one
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villain in that entire game server
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across thousands of people everybody
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knew who I was
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there was forum posts about me all the
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time and how
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much of a scumbag I was how vile I was
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and I took that role in our group mostly
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for unification purposes because people
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weren’t getting along so I pretty much
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became the bad guy in order to help push
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the group in order to achieve things and
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the group ended up becoming the number
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ones and you serve Gildan server for a
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long time I think they still are and I
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have a lot of archived at villainous
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posts to both have myself in that game
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it’s pretty funny actually I think I
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think they have I think they still keep
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my character active then they just kind
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of rename it and around to fit and
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they kind of use it as like almost like
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a statue now of remember remember the
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villain it’s pretty funny but this is
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this girl in particular understood like
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she could see I know I don’t know what
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type she is I never bothered and really
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care but you know she could see she
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understood what I was doing and she’s
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somebody that it was really painful for
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me to actually do those things but
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because she understood what I was doing
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and I could talk to her about it and and
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and and she understood what was
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happening what I was trying to do it was
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easier for me that way so there’s always
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gonna be people who can see and
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understand the hidden meaning behind
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your actions so don’t think there won’t
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be so there’s always going to be people
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out there for you you’re not going to be
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misunderstood forever there are people
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who do understand and so oh that’s it
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man this video is extremely long I
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apologize I have nothing else I don’t
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know what to say guys you have any
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questions or comments let me know your 9
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MJ you want to talk about things I guess
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that’s that’s everything that’s
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everything I’m pretty sure
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yeah
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goodbye