Are INFJs more often single than others?

I believe in most cases, yes.


  • INFJs look for a long term relationship, most INFJs don’t do one night stands or short term relationships. The dating scene now, is more or less for appearance sake which isn’t genuine to the INFJ. So the INFJ might wait for a serious relationship while their friends jump into relationships around them.
  • High expectations, INFJs are very critical people, not only on themselves. So the INFJ might want to find someone that meets those criteria or will be selective on their chosen partners. This obviously will take time to find a good partner to their standard.
  • Some do enjoy being alone; INFJs do enjoy their alone time.