“Fake Alpha” Narcissists vs True Alphas

Authority vs Competence

Force an Agenda vs Gives Time to Buy into an Agenda

Unearned Loyalty vs Earned Byproduct of Relationship

Thin-skinned vs Understanding Difference.  Thick Skinned

Cult based on their Personal Preference vs Solid Ideas

Insistence vs Patient Planning & Process, dealing with problems that come up

Demand Obedience vs Creativity & Diversity

Desperate for Agreement vs Confident

Bullying, Threats, Name Calling, Derision vs Assertiveness with decency. Allows others Dignity

Has to be on top, Concerned with Rank vs Common Good

Self-impressed vs Humble

Exploitative vs Lifting Others Up

Appearance of Success vs Essence, Lets my Inner Being Speak

Angry Under Pressure vs Calm under Pressure

 

Short-term Brute Force

 

Life isn’t all about me.  Life is about Us

DRC: dignity, respect, civility

If We Had a Real Leader

Imagining Covid under a normal president.

This week I had a conversation that left a mark. It was with Mary Louise Kelly and E.J. Dionne on NPR’s “All Things Considered,” and it was about how past presidents had handled moments of national mourning — Lincoln after Gettysburg, Reagan after the Challenger explosion and Obama after the Sandy Hook school shootings.

The conversation left me wondering what America’s experience of the pandemic would be like if we had a real leader in the White House.

If we had a real leader, he would have realized that tragedies like 100,000 Covid-19 deaths touch something deeper than politics: They touch our shared vulnerability and our profound and natural sympathy for one another.

In such moments, a real leader steps outside of his political role and reveals himself uncloaked and humbled, as someone who can draw on his own pains and simply be present with others as one sufferer among a common sea of sufferers.

If we had a real leader, she would speak of the dead not as a faceless mass but as individual persons, each seen in unique dignity. Such a leader would draw on the common sources of our civilization, the stores of wisdom that bring collective strength in hard times.

Lincoln went back to the old biblical cadences to comfort a nation. After the church shooting in Charleston, Barack Obama went to “Amazing Grace,” the old abolitionist anthem that has wafted down through the long history of African-American suffering and redemption.

In his impromptu remarks right after the assassination of Martin Luther King, Robert Kennedy recalled the slaying of his own brother and quoted Aeschylus: “In our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.”

If we had a real leader, he would be bracingly honest about how bad things are, like Churchill after the fall of Europe. He would have stored in his upbringing the understanding that hard times are the making of character, a revelation of character and a test of character. He would offer up the reality that to be an American is both a gift and a task. Every generation faces its own apocalypse, and, of course, we will live up to our moment just as our ancestors did theirs.

If we had a real leader, she would remind us of our common covenants and our common purposes. America is a diverse country joined more by a common future than by common pasts. In times of hardships real leaders re-articulate the purpose of America, why we endure these hardships and what good we will make out of them.

After the Challenger explosion, Reagan reminded us that we are a nation of explorers and that the explorations at the frontiers of science would go on, thanks in part to those who “slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God.”

At Gettysburg, Lincoln crisply described why the fallen had sacrificed their lives — to show that a nation “dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal” can long endure and also to bring about “a new birth of freedom” for all the world.

Of course, right now we don’t have a real leader. We have Donald Trump, a man who can’t fathom empathy or express empathy, who can’t laugh or cry, love or be loved — a damaged narcissist who is unable to see the true existence of other human beings except insofar as they are good or bad for himself.

But it’s too easy to offload all blame on Trump. Trump’s problem is not only that he’s emotionally damaged; it is that he is unlettered. He has no literary, spiritual or historical resources to draw upon in a crisis.

All the leaders I have quoted above were educated under a curriculum that put character formation at the absolute center of education. They were trained by people who assumed that life would throw up hard and unexpected tests, and it was the job of a school, as one headmaster put it, to produce young people who would be “acceptable at a dance, invaluable in a shipwreck.”

Think of the generations of religious and civic missionaries, like Frances Perkins, who flowed out of Mount Holyoke. Think of all the Morehouse Men and Spelman Women. Think of all the young students, in schools everywhere, assigned Plutarch and Thucydides, Isaiah and Frederick Douglass — the great lessons from the past on how to lead, endure, triumph or fail. Only the great books stay in the mind for decades and serve as storehouses of wisdom when hard times come.

Right now, science and the humanities should be in lock step: science producing vaccines, with the humanities stocking leaders and citizens with the capacities of resilience, care and collaboration until they come. But, instead, the humanities are in crisis at the exact moment history is revealing how vital moral formation really is.

One of the lessons of this crisis is that help isn’t coming from some centralized place at the top of society. If you want real leadership, look around you.

Rick Wilson, “Everything Trump Touches Dies”

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there is actually a table in the Truman
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White House where he played poker every
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night and before he went to bed they
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would actually put a cover on the poker
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table to disguise the fact that Truman
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was playing poker because it was bad or
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seeing you know unfortunately I’m I’m
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wondering in in light of this and in
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light of this president um I used to
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sort of respect the office of the
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presidency and in in you know even the
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ones that I disagreed with and that you
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know several um now that we have seen
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this guy you know go crazy on Twitter
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and the potential for having colluded
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with the foreign power which ruins me at
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my core was in potential ruins me
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I Corps do you ever see the sanctity of
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office ever returning in the future yeah
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I’m gonna actually shock you with
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something because either the most
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effective theme that was tested during
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George Bush’s W Bush his run for the
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White House the most successful themed
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after compassionate conservatism which
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actually really people believed it
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bought it was restoring honor and
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dignity to the White House because Bill
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Clinton ran it like a frat house now I
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think it’s gonna take a long time for
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people to get back to a point where
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probity and dignity look George
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Washington he thought the most important
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characteristic of a president was first
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not to become a king but the second was
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dignity and you got a guy upstairs rage
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tweeting in the Oval Office are in the
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executive bedroom every night you know
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surrounded by a bed full of filet-o-fish
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rappers and rage tweeting all night and
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it’s hard to think of him as as you know
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a dignified person you got a guy with a
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gigantic chin waddle who thinks he’s
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like babe meat and and he just the whole
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effect of Trump is clownish and so that
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makes it harder to believe in the in
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that stature of the presidency so but
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look it’ll come back there will be the
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next person who’s president one hopes
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will recognize that there’s a value to
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be had by a president who shows dignity
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and strength and quiet rectitude
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sometimes as opposed to being a giant
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rectum all the time so thank you hi
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there hi I know that you have said that
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you have friends in the administration
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and that they call you to moan from time
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to time from time to time yesterday was
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a bad day I bet it was do they do they
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seriously think because at some point a
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credible conservative administration
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will come back to this government is
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anyone in the Trump administration short
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of maybe Jim mattis should probably seek
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employment at say a gas station
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somewhere in the Midwest after this
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because this is going to scar them and
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mark them forever right I mean it it is
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one of the predicates of the book and
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it’s proving itself out time and time
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they don’t even get credit for being
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competent no and here’s the thing when
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they call you what I tell them every
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time for advice
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quit walk out the door now and tell the
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truth walk out the door now and say
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what’s going on but moon do you shred it
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we make him take you to court make him
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make him go to discovery and and they
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they a lot of these people that Trump
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brought in let’s put it this way when
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Trump sends us people to work in the
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administration he’s not sending his best
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thank you thank you
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question out yes I wrote it down because
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I can’t remember what I did 20 seconds
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ago so I say this is someone a young
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recently recent college graduate who’s
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unemployed who probably makes Bernie
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Sanders look like a centrist I actually
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asked Noah Rothman this last year at an
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event at my college and I was looking at
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a University of Chicago poll that said
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that a majority I think it’s 60% of
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people aged 18 to 35 don’t see
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capitalism the sort of core of
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conservative conservativism as the thing
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that can solve the most pressing issues
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of our time and what I asked no last
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year and I’d love to hear it from a you
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know rock-ribbed conservative like
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yourself what can you do to steer maybe
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not people like me but maybe people
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flirting with the idea or the left back
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to the ideas one of the things is that
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my party has to get its head out of its
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own backside on crony capitalism because
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what we’ve done for a long time and what
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this tax bill did was take care of a
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specific industry in the legislation now
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I was told when Barack Obama was
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president that picking winners and
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losers was a bad thing the tax bill
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picked 150 some winners on in the hedge
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fund and wall street world and about 60
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guys out there in the economy and they
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got 85% of the benefits of a tax bill
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that is that requires five percent
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economic growth
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4.1% economic growth to sustain itself
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it’s ridiculous we’re picking winners
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and losers by protecting the coal
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industry which but should be dead by now
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so Republicans have not been a good
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example of free-market capitalism in
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Congress for a long time this goes back
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before Trump I’ve been a critic of this
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of my own party of this before Trump
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where we have decided that free-market
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capitalism is capitalism is great except
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if a guy gave us a big enough donation
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to the super PAC then we’re gonna make
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sure that his industry including it
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could be you know like a dead industry
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industrial sector completely that
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Congress says ok we’re gonna keep buying
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buggy whips from the sky because you
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know the buggy whip industry is the
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heart of American commerce capitalism
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works when it’s tried and you know
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socialism often leads to people starving
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and freezing in the dark so you know and
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I know everyone’s you say oh then
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Norwegian Nations ended our and and and
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the scanty nations yes they’re lovely
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but there be few examples of this that
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don’t scale necessarily to macro
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economies like ours but anyway it’s a
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hard road and it’s gonna have to be
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something that requires some some reform
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and self correction side the GOP to get
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back to a free market and free trade
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capitalism system so thanks thank you I
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right yeah BRIC big fan a great look
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plus one all those lot yes
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does the Trump administration have any
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policy successes for the remainder of
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the Trump administration except by
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tearing down Obama you’re a regulation
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well Donald Trump proved in the very
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first weeks of his administration that
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he can’t pass the legislation I mean the
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the house and the Senate had Obamacare
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repeal cocked and locked it was going to
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be smooth they were going to jam it
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through they were gonna day we’re gonna
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as a leadership member said to me pull
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up Pelosi and smash Obamacare repeal
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through and then the giant man-baby came
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in and started and started interrupting
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and started saying things on Twitter and
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then describing the billa’s meme and so
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there’s a reason they’re sending Trump
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bills to sign that are like
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naming bridges and the post office
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Reform Act you know it’s small ball
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stuff because they don’t trust him with
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the big important stuff so they’re gonna
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keep doing policy changes they’re gonna
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keep doing the pen and the phone that
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they hated Obama for and they’re gonna
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keep doing executive orders even though
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conservatives used to scream their heads
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off Barack Obama is acting like a
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dictator because he’s passing you know
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he’s signing these executive orders and
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he’s got a limited portfolio of things
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he can do I predict he’s gonna keep
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trying to keep the coal industry thing
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moving and the steel tariffs moving
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because he believes those are the key to
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the two West Virginia Pennsylvania Ohio
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you know the whole pencil tucky region
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there and all that so thanks excellent
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great book thanks a lot thank you so
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much a question I haven’t heard from
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anybody is one about the Russians the
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Russian money and the oligarchs what do
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you have to say about that and where are
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the Republicans on this there’s a sort
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of let me give this sort of technical
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description of that there’s a lot of it
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he’s been taking it for a long time
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well well beyond 2016 he is deeply
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embedded with a whole bunch of Russian
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mobsters and has been since the 80s when
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they peel this back and there I’ll tell
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you the reason Donald Trump lives in
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absolute mortal terror where it’s like
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strap on the extra diaper when he
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mentions when they mentioned getting his
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taxes because this is a man who knows
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once they start peeling apart the
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relationships with the banks and with
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the Russian lending and the glown
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guarantees from Russians from like the
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Bank of Cyprus to Deutsche Bank and all
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these other things and they’re by the
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way they’re people who are experts on
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this bike well beyond my knowledge Craig
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ungar’s book is great about this but
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we’re gonna learn that this whole I have
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no business with the oceans I don’t know
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any Russians we’re gonna discover that
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that is a complete fabrication and and
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and the behavior of their campaign yeah
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look Paul Manafort is not a guy you hire
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because you’re like I need someone who’s
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really dedicated to clean government
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he’s a guy you hired because he brings
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in a bunch of money from his friends in
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Moscow and the oligarchs have gotten
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used to buying elections in a lot of
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countries and they played a big role in
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this one and I think you’re gonna see
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that come out not only in the
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investigations that peel back Trump’s
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business and financial and tax records
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but also in the mobile investigation
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itself thank you
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who are the Democrats strongest in
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weakest candidates in 2020 that is a
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great question and I’m not gonna answer
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it I’m gonna tell you what they need not
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who it is the Democrats in 2020 I’m
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gonna give you a scale like a
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thermometer scale right up here right up
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here I’m gonna stand up low higher right
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up here be great on TV kick ass on TV be
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engaging smart witty funny take it to
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Trump let’s just kick his ass on TV all
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the time now so that disqualifies about
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40% of all Democratic candidates we’re
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thinking about it and of course Hillary
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Clinton with the broken robot Act could
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never be that charismatic person okay
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second part raise a butt ton of money
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cuz you’re gonna need it because Trump
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is gonna get the same media vacuum he
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got last time so you’re gonna have to
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buy that exposure you’re gonna have to
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get in that fight and buy it it sucks
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it’s horrible but there’s a lot of money
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out there opposed to Trump and that’s
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the next part now let me give you the
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important part about policy the policy
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part voters didn’t vote for a policy
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with Trump they voted for an emotion
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that emotion was rage they loved it they
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loved that whole act so the Democrats
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need somebody that can activate their
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people and who has great I fight on the
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battlefield we’re gonna actually fight
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on so I look at an Elizabeth Warren that
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schoolmarm technocrat yeah you may love
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her but make her secretary of the
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Treasury or something you know
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and I know people like Oh what about
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avenatti maybe the guys got smack the
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guys got he can shit talk like nobody’s
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business and he’s under Trump’s skin so
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far and you may find somebody else that
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can do that there may be some otherwise
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you start lookin beta or work wins in
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Texas is a long shot that guy wins in
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Texas he’s gonna be a rocket in the
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Democratic Party he will be a guy who
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can
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he’s a giant killer and he’s good on his
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feet and he’s smart and his answer the
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other day on the on the anthem question
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was as good I mean I sat there watching
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that going I wish I’d written that damn
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so thank you we have time for this one
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last question all right
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hook it up thank you
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so I work in polling and I’m very
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curious tell me who so I’m just curious
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what you think where we’re going with
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political polling for the next
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presidential election and really how you
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know I think from my work I’ve seen that
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the general public’s trust in polling
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has just been demolished based yeah yeah
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I think you and I can both acknowledge
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that that 600 sample national polls are
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no longer effective as a tool you know I
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I have a couple of researchers and firms
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that I’ve used and helped put together
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over the years and everything counts in
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large amounts so we’re doing thousands
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and thousands more interviews than we
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ever have and we’re doing robo’s but you
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know we’re overcoming the the inaccuracy
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of it with just sheer volume sheer
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tonnage I think we’re gonna have to
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continue to merge polling with other
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data a consumer data and behavioral data
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and stuff we’re seeing online we were
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able to get much quicker than we have in
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the past but I think as a tracking
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mechanism its god-awful
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as a quantitative exercise it’s it’s a
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train wreck but fortunately as a media
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prompt there’s almost nothing that that
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drives media faster during a campaign
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season than a poll showing somebody up
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down good bad so it’s a longer
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discussion that we could have here and a
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fairly technical one but I’m a big fan
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of way more interviews and and I don’t
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even care about the the the you know the
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trivialities of the inside campaign
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stuff it’s mostly junk these days so
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thank you all right
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[Applause]
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you

Martha Nussbaum, “The Monarchy of Fear”

Martha Nussbaum discusses her book, “The Monarchy of Fear” at Politics and Prose on 7/9/18.

One of the country’s leading moral philosophers, Nussbaum cuts through the acrimony of today’s political landscape to analyze the Trump era through one simple truth: that the political is always emotional. Starting there, she shows how globalization has produced feelings of powerlessness that have in turn fed resentment and blame. These have erupted into hostility against immigrants, women, Muslims, people of color, and cultural elites. Drawing on examples from ancient Greece to Hamilton, Nussbaum shows how anger and fear inflame people on both the left and right; by illuminating the powerful role these passions play in public life, she points to ways we can avoid getting caught up in the vitriol that sustains and perpetuates divisive politics.