Do Girls Really Love Assholes?
SBK writes: “Bad boys tend to have lots of positive traits that come along for the ride of the badness such as good looks, confidence, creativity, humor, charisma, high energy, and good social skills– all things women find attractive.”
He also found that for men “one striking direct path to mating success stood out… low agreeableness; the lower the agreeableness, the more sexual partners.”
.. “[Bad Boys] don’t really ever commit to you, therefore you’re always chasing after them. The challenge!
.. These guys weren’t bad boys; they were just emotionally unavailable.
Non-committal, not ready for a relationship, whatever you want to call it– that’s it! That’s where the allure comes from. Not the bad boy himself, but his inability to commit.
.. Maybe for me, it boils down to this old saying, you always want what you can’t have.