What is the commander personality that can control narcissists? Can you learn that?Yes. It’s very easy to control a narcissist and give a narcissistic injury.
If you want to do this may I advise to you that I will take no responsibility for what might happen to you. Narcissists are dangerous and out of control lunatics. It’s best to leave them behind.
Okay? With that out of the way here’s how to control a narcissist.
You flip the script and instead of defensive mode you go into offensive mode.
You put a mirror back onto them of their feelings.
You do this in a non threatening and non emotional manner.
YOU are the commander of your emotions.
YOU direct the conversations.
Think of yourself as a doctor giving your prognosis to a patient that is very ill.
Reflecting back onto the patient just how their behavior is causing them harm to their health.
The reasons narcissists behave as they do is to be able, at all costs to NOT reflect and look inside themselves.
When they say something to you like:
“Wow, your work has just only improved slightly. It’s okay, you could use more practice.”
You could say:
“You seem angry”
“You seem upset is something frustrating you?”
“Is something bothering you?”
Hold a mirror up to them. Reflect back to them their emotional states.
When they get negative (and they will) you could say something like:
“You have difficulty being positive don’t you.”
“You hate happiness don’t you?”
“Be appreciative, life is short”
When they try to get you angry and start yelling at you, you could say:
“You enjoy abusive behavior”
“You enjoy starting fights.”
State their feelings, nothing more. Do not get into an argument. Stay calm and ninja.
If they fly off the handle leave with no explanation.
It has nothing to do with you. They cannot reflect on these emotions.
They want you to focus on you so you never look at them, turn it around and reflect the mirror back to them.
With some such as malignants this won’t do a thing, sorry to say…
How Sigma Empaths Tame Narcissists
How Sigma Empaths Tame Narcissists. Some people do the best that they can to avoid the pangs of the narcissist’s abuse, while some effortlessly stay afloat and not move a muscle to defend themselves. Who are these people who are neither threatened nor triggered by narcissists? Well, they’re the most resilient, composed, and independent— sigma empaths. So, how does this rare breed of humans tame their predators?
Sigma empaths will never allow themselves to be slaves of narcissists’ demands. They live their lives to the fullest without anyone’s permission and approval— this is why narcissists can never dominate them. As a sigma empath, do you agree with this? How do you tame narcissists in your own ways?
00:00 INTRO
00:33 10 They stay passive when the narcissist needs their reaction the most
01:38 09 Narcissists can’t make them care
02:27 08 They can never be codependents
03:27 07 They refuse to absorb the narcissist’s emotions.
04:26 06 They aren’t sources of the narcissist’s supply.
05:25 05 They are extremely hard to get.
06:12 04 They’re too busy to entertain nonsense.
07:01 03 They refuse to be dictated and controlled.
07:45 02 They’re neither obsessed nor afraid to lose anyone.
08:38 01 They expose the narcissist’s truths.
Should I tell a narcissist that I know their games and who they are?
Should I tell a narcissist that I know their games and who they are?Realizing you are dealing with a narcissist, is like breaking the Enigma Code.
You now know their modus operandi, their plan of attack, their systematic game against you and others.
Should you reveal you have cracked the Enigma Code, that you are on to them?
My usual view is, no. Don’t let them know.
Instead, avoid them where you can, let them get away with small inconveniences against and, where it matters most to you, leverage all your knowledge and understanding against them.
So that any material attack against you, backfires tremendously on them.
They will not really process you are on to them, but will feel quite confused. They will see you as a danger zone, even though they do not understand why.
And they will not mess with you.
Check out my YT channel, where I talk about narcissism – Joe Inda House
This is the ONLY Way to Make a Narcissist Respect You
This is the ONLY Way to Make a Narcissist Respect You//Do you want to know how to command respect from a narcissist so that you are no longer living in fear of them or paralyzed worried about they are going to say or do? There are a few secret tricks to getting narcissists to be the ones eating out of your hands instead of the other way around. In this video, I am sharing all of them including the one big one – the only one that will really have them giving you the props you deserve.
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I help people negotiate with narcissists in business settings, divorce settings, family law settings. I help you get out of those relationships with your dignity intact and with the outcome you want and deserve.
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